She ain't no golddigger....
or whatever that Kanye West song is called. It's catchy, despite my feeling that i really don't want to like him.

My husband thinks he doesn't need to feel bad for cheating on me and rescinding his 9-month new vow of lifetime commitment because, well, I've had a "free ride" since we've been together. he's paid credit card bills and my gym membership so he's pardoned from any sort of emotional abandonment.

if i'd have known that ever might be a tradeoff, i'd have taken a second job.